Erotic clothing

Hidi Ho everyone,

Have you ever noticed that after a few years, a few kids and some money troubles, your sex life isn't quite what it used to be? Once upon a time you were making out all over the home, constantly finding new places and new things to "christen" These days, you are more likely to be seen climbing into age old night clothes and snoring before your head even hits the pillow rather than enjoying the joys of an adult sex toy and erotic clothing with your partner! It's time to make a change and the easiest place to start is with erotic clothing.

Erotic clothing means different things for different people. For some it can be a nice white lingerie set with a gorgeous lacy bra, g-string, stockings and suspenders where for others it might be latex corsets and sky high platform boots. Before you make a start with erotic clothing, work out what it means for you.

One of the best places to start when spicing up your sex life if you are new to the world of erotic clothing and adult sex toy stores, is by something simple such as the edible panties idea. This is both cute and sexy and is guaranteed to have you both giggling like school kids if nothing else. The trick is not to take it all too seriously and have fun, after all your sex life is meant to be enjoyable! The edible underwear idea works for both male and females; the male can wear a cute edible posing pouch and the lady can wear an edible g-string and bra combination. Sex is good, sweets are good, combine the two and you have practically found heaven!

Of course, if edible underwear is not really your thing, why not take a look at what we have here at Wicked Party Plan. You will find a vast array of erotic clothing that is bound to tantalize and it can help to give you some ideas where you have no clue where to start. Who cares if that red chemise is not really your thing? You are not going to wear it grocery shopping, it's designed to make your man horny as hell so give it a go - you have nothing to lose! You will find so many things that you can use as erotic clothing - nurses outfits, nuns outfits, sexy secretary outfits as well as lacy lingerie, lingerie, barely there lingerie and even crotch-less and nipple-less numbers if you are feeling really frisky!

The only thing that limits you with regards to erotic clothing is your own imagination and the best thing to do is to sit down and talk with your partner. You never know, his idea of sexy might be you dressing up in his favorite soccer strip complete with knee-high socks and pigtails! Get a feel for what he likes and compromise with what you like, you can always wear a pretty bra and pants set underneath if soccer shorts are not your thing!

Aphrodisiac's....getting in the mood.

Hidi Ho everyone,

Well I have been asked a few times, what is a easy way to get your blood pumping in the bedroom.

Of course, the easy way is porn, well it is for most red blooded males, but maybe not for all us females.

If you want to turn up the heat in the bedroom forget about making a mad dash to the pharmacy for a wonder drug or potent potion, and head to the supermarket instead. Here are some of the often over-looked aphrodisiacs that should be on your next shopping list...

Chillies

Chillies are literally the spice of life. The key ingredient is the chemical capsaicin, which gives your mood a lift by triggering the release of feel-good endorphins.

Chocolate

Here's an easy (and tasty!) way to kick-start things in the bedroom! Chocolate contains phenylethylamine, the chemical that your body naturally produces when you fall head over heels in love. But that's not all this tasty treat has to offer — dark chocolate can also facilitate blood vessel function and improve heart health. And since the blood vessels surrounding the heart are the same blood vessels that surround the penis that means chocolate equals more adult action!

Asparagus

This healthy green is high in vitamin E, which is said to stimulate hormones. So, add some to your evening meal and you will no doubt be turning off the TV and retiring early!

Oysters

This is an obvious one — oysters are an aphrodisiac favourite. Packed with zinc, a mineral used to produce testosterone, they are a key ingredient in increasing the libido in both men and women.

Avocado

The ancient Aztec name for an avocado was 'ahuacati', which means 'testicle', so it's no great surprise that this magical fruit is a long-heralded libido lifter. It contains zinc, which increases your testosterone levels, as well as omega-3 acids to lift your energy levels and give you a spring in your step.

Perfume is one that also may work.  I know my hubbie has some awesome aftershave that does it for me.  We here at Wicked also sell some gorgeous perfume and also Lure for men and women.  This is a Pheromone spray. - A pheromone (from Greek φέρω phero "to bear" + hormone from Greek ὁρμή - "impetus") is a secreted or excreted chemical factor that triggers a social response in members of the same species. Pheromones are chemicals capable of acting outside the body of the secreting individual to impact the behavior of the receiving individual

 And it works!!!

According to a new study, nearly half of all women under 60 have some sort of sexual dysfunction. If this is you, then recharge your lagging libido with these natural remedies…

Tasty tempters

Martha Hopkins, co-author of Intercourses: An Aphrodisiac Cookbook suggests preparing a special meal for that someone is a sure-fire way to reignite the fire. ''Cooking for somebody else says, 'I care about you' — and that's the biggest turn-on of all,'' she says.

In-the-mood foods

Foods that are quick and easy to make, so that you're not exhausted by the time you're finished cooking, are the best options. Chocolate treats are one of Hopkins' favourites. Why? Because chocolate melting in your mouth triggers the same ''Mmm'' and ''Ahh'' sounds as lovemaking.

Dealing with relationship woes

''If we're upset about something, we often bring it to the bedroom with us,'' says Calee Spinncy from Indiana University's Center for Sexual Health Promotion in the US. Amy Levine, a sexuality educator, agrees, ''Not feeling supported can make any woman's libido disappear.''

Setting the mood

This is a simple one — putting on your favourite music or spraying on some of your favourite perfume can have a positive effect on your libido and get you in the mood for lovemaking.

Body confidence

Low sex drive can be associated with poor body image. The more confident you feel about your shape and size, the sexier you will feel.

Communicating is key

Talk to your partner, explaining your needs and even giving some helpful hints about what they can do to get you in the mood.

Make time for intimacy

The ''hurried woman syndrome'' is often to blame for low sex drive — after all, who has time to go to work, cook the dinner, drop the kids off at school and fit in quality alone time with their partner? If this is you, it's time to reprioritise and to make time for intimacy.

More foreplay!

During mid-life women can become less sexually responsive due to decreasing hormone levels. So take your time, paying more attention to the all-important foreplay can make for bountiful bedroom action.

Rest and relaxation

Stress, fatigue, menopause and illness can all alter a woman's sex drive. If this sounds familiar, then why not try lovemaking in the morning, rather than at the end of the day, when you're weary for your day's work?!

Now....we have many 'tools of the trade' to help you also get in the mood.  If you would like to see our catalogue, please check out http://www.wickedpartyplan.com.au/

Well have a awesome afternoon and a wicked night!

Happy shopping.

Wicked Lingerie & Wicked Night

Hidi ho,

It has been too long since I last blogged...norty norty!

Today, I would like to show you our new Wicked Lingerie. 

 It is very spesh and sexy and sensual. 

WE even have shoes! 

Sizes range all the way up to 24 and shoes up to 11's!

This is just a fraction of what we offfer.  If you are interested at all in having a party, please email and I can arrange one for you.  If you would like to look at a catalogue, let me know also.

Now, we are also having another Wicked Night.

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Well thats all from me for today..... remember....

From Box to Bedroom to Pleasure Chest

Hidi Ho everyone....

Today is FRIDAY..........woohoo.

But today...before we all go party....I would like to chat about your 'toys'....well more or less about keeping them clean!  Yes...they have to be cleaned....and I am surprised that many really dont know how to care for their products.

As with all things we love, we try to take care of them as best as we can... and your favorite sex toys are no exception. Learn how to show your toys the love they need, so they can love you right back...

Whenever you make the decision to purchase a sex toy, you have high hopes in terms of what you expect from it as well as its ability to withstand regular use. If it's a great toy, you can rely on its performance - and when it's not, you’ll be disappointed that you wasted money and spontaneous opportunities. We’d like you to avoid any downers and get the maximum performance from your sex toys by checking out our Care Checklist. These tips in no way intend to replace the recommendations from the manufacturer – it is highly recommended you consult these before using your toy.

From the Box

The first thing you need to do is check for allergies to the material(s) used. There are enough toys out on the market that can accommodate just about anyone’s needs! Materials like glass, silicone and plastic give people with sensitivities excellent options to choose from. You may want to use condoms if you’re sharing your toy in order to mitigate the chances of exchanging bacteria or fluids with your sexual partner; if you have a latex sensitivity you can obtain condoms made from polyurethane.

The second thing to do is give it a good wash. Make sure you follow the manufacturer’s recommendations before using your toy for the first time. Follow the steps to sanitize and/or pre-treat your toy. As well, try to make a habit of always following up with another wash right after using it to avoid bacteria building up. As you will want to avoid getting water into the internal electronic compartments, wrap a towel around that part of it to protect it from getting wet.

Next, inspect your toy before you use it! When all you want to do is rip into the box and jump on it, you need to put on the brakes and do the following things: check for discoloration, tears or damage to any of the components; inspect the battery pack for leaks or corrosion; and make sure wires have proper connections with the main body of the toy and check to see whether the unit operates properly when you put in batteries e.g. does it turn on, does it have a range of vibe, etc. That way, if there is a problem, you might have a hope of returning it.

To the Bedroom

When you're introducing sex toys into your repertoire, make sure that you use the right batteries. Sex toys are made up of small parts and those parts can burn out easily; running your toys for extended periods of time can contribute to their demise. An overheating toy could be a real mood spoiler. It is a good idea to use the 'no name' brand batteries with your toys. Often the brand name batteries deliver power that is beyond your toy’s capacity and can eventually short them out. Try to avoid toys that require expensive hard-to-find "button" type batteries. The upside is that no-name 'AA' & 'AAA' batteries are cheap... picking up a few packages at the 2 dollar store is convenient, affordable and you’ll always have fresh batteries on hand. You can bypass the battery business by investing in a rechargeable toy. That way, you can have less impact on the environment and more in your bedroom.

Use the right lube to maximize performance. Toys and lube go hand in hand. Even though you might produce a lot of your own natural lubricant, have a bottle of lube on hand for more comfortable extended sessions. Water-based lube is good to have around for practically every type of toy. It's got a pleasant consistency and rinses easily, but the downside is that it dries out rather quickly. Try silicone-based lube for longer staying power but NEVER use it with either nu-skin or silicone toys!!

Waterproofing is another point to consider. Make sure to check our featured reviews as well as the manufacturer’s instructions to see what level of water exposure your toy is capable of handling. Always check that all the components are closed properly.

To Your Pleasure Chest

Proper Cleaning and Storage is crucial to proper sex toy care. To improve your toy’s lifespan, keep it in a cool, dark and enclosed place away from pets and children. Why not get a fun box to store them in? It'll be much more appealing and you'll take pride in your wonderful collection. Remove your batteries before you start washing them and wash your toy before and after every use. Never store batteries in your toy because they might leak, rust or turn your toy on accidentally. It might not be the first thing people want to do after a pleasure session, but washing your toys after every use will elevate your desire to keep using your toy. It's simply good hygiene – special things sometimes require special care. You can usually get away with rinsing with warm water when you use water-based lubes but some types of lube require gentle soap, specialty toy cleaner or even rubbing alcohol. Follow any instructions that come with your toy. For drying, try to air-dry your toy overnight or dab with a lint-free towel. The key here is to not throw it into the closet while it’s still damp!

I sell a toy cleaner, so if you wouls like some....just let me know.

Well have a wicked weekend all and remember...

Professionalism

Hidi Ho everyone,

I hope you all had a wicked weekend.  My was full on! 

I want to talk about being professional today.  A lot of people think when they see WIcked Party Plan and find out what it is about, that it is ewwww and dirty and nasty!  It is not.  I strive to make sure the staff under me are professional at all times.  Lori, the CEO, demands it.

So...lets see....do you think you are professional??

How you look, talk, write, act and work determines whether you are a professional or an amateur. Society does not emphasize the importance of professionalism, so people tend to believe that amateur work is normal. Many businesses accept less-than-good results....We don't!

 You can miss 15% of the driving-test answers and still get a driver license. "Just getting by" is an attitude many people accept. But it is the attitude of amateurs.

"Don't ever do anything as though you were an amateur.

"Anything you do, do it as a Professional to Professional standards.

"If you have the idea about anything you do that you just dabble in it, you will wind up with a dabble life. There'll be no satisfaction in it because there will be no real production you can be proud of.

"Develop the frame of mind that whatever you do, you are doing it as a professional and move up to professional standards in it.

"Never let it be said of you that you lived an amateur life.

"Professionals see situations and they handle what they see. They are not amateur dabblers.

"So learn this as a first lesson about life. The only successful beings in any field, including living itself, are those who have a professional viewpoint and make themselves and ARE professionals" — L. Ron Hubbard

A professional learns every aspect of the job. An amateur skips the learning process whenever possible.

A professional carefully discovers what is needed and wanted. An amateur assumes what others need and want.

A professional looks, speaks and dresses like a professional. An amateur is sloppy in appearance and speech.

A professional keeps his or her work area clean and orderly. An amateur has a messy, confused or dirty work area.

A professional is focused and clear-headed. An amateur is confused and distracted.

A professional does not let mistakes slide by. An amateur ignores or hides mistakes

A professional jumps into difficult assignments. An amateur tries to get out of difficult wor

A professional completes projects as soon as possible. An amateur is surrounded by unfinished work piled on top of unfinished work

A professional remains level-headed and optimistic. An amateur gets upset and assumes the worst.

A professional handles money and accounts very carefully. An amateur is sloppy with money or accounts.

A professional faces up to other people’s upsets and problems. An amateur avoids others’ problems.

A professional uses higher emotional tones: Enthusiasm, cheerfulness, interest, contentment. An amateur uses lower emotional tones: anger, hostility, resentment, fear, victim

A professional persists until the objective is achieved. An amateur gives up at the first opportunity

A professional produces more than expected. An amateur produces just enough to get by

A professional produces a high-quality product or service. An amateur produces a medium-to-low quality product or service

A professional earns high pay. An amateur earns low pay and feels it’s unfair

A professional has a promising future. An amateur has an uncertain future

The first step to making yourself a professional is to decide you ARE a professional.

Are you a professional?

101 Ways to annoy others

Morning all....I know...It's like 1.42am...lmao.

Can't sleep as I have toothache!

I was senrt this funny email and I thought I would share!

101 Ways To Annoy People

1. Sing the Batman theme incessantly.

2. In the memo field of all your checks, write "for sensual massage."

3. Specify that your drive-through order is "to go."

4. Learn Morse code, and have conversations with friends in public consisting entirely of "Beeeep Bip Bip Beeep Bip..."

5. If you have a glass eye, tap on it occasionally with your pen while talking to others.

6. Amuse yourself for endless hours by hooking a camcorder to your TV and then pointing it at the screen. <

7. Speak only in a "robot" voice.

8. Push all the flat Lego pieces together tightly.

9. Start each meal by conspicuously licking all your food, and announce that this is so no one will "swipe your grub".

10. Leave the copy machine set to reduce 200%, extra dark, 17 inch paper, 98 copies.

11. Stomp on little plastic ketchup packets.

12. Sniffle incessantly.

13. Leave your turn signal on for fifty miles.

14. Name your dog "Dog." 15. Insist on keeping your car windshield wipers running in all weather conditions "to keep them tuned up."

16. Reply to everything someone says with "that's what YOU think."

17. Claim that you must always wear a bicycle helmet as part of your "astronaut training."

18. Declare your apartment an independent nation, and sue your neighbors upstairs for "violating your airspace".

19. Forget the punchline to a long joke, but assure the listener it was a "real hoot."

20. Follow a few paces behind someone, spraying everything they touch with Lysol.

21. Practice making fax and modem noises.

22. Highlight irrelevant information in scientific papers and "cc:" them to your boss.

23. Make beeping noises when a large person backs up.

24. Invent nonsense computer jargon in conversations, and see if people play along to avoid the appearance of ignorance.

25. Erect an elaborate network of ropes in your backyard, and tell the neighbors you are a "spider person."

26. Finish all your sentences with the words "in accordance with the prophesy."

27. Wear a special hip holster for your

remote control.

28. Do not add any inflection to the end of your sentences, producing awkward silences with the impression that you'll be saying more any moment.

29. Signal that a conversation is over by clamping your hands over your ears.

30. Disassemble your pen and "accidentally" flip the ink cartridge across the room.

31. Give a play-by-play account of a persons every action in a nasal Howard Cosell voice.

32. Holler random numbers while someone is counting.

33. Adjust the tint on your TV so that all the people are green, and insist to others that you "like it that way."

34. Drum on every available surface.

35. Staple papers in the middle of the page.

36. Ask 1-800 operators for dates.

37. Produce a rental video consisting entirely of dire FBI copyright warnings.

38. Sew anti-theft detector strips

into peoples backpacks.

39. Hide dairy products in inaccessible places.

40. Write the surprise ending to a novel on its first page.

41. Set alarms for random times.

42. Order a side of pork rinds with your filet mignon.

43. Instead of Gallo, serve Night Train next Thanksgiving.

44. Publicly investigate just how slowly you can make a "croaking" noise.

45. Honk and wave to strangers.

46. Dress only in clothes colored Hunters Orange.

47. Change channels five minutes before the end of every show.

48. Tape pieces of "Sweating to the Oldies" over climactic parts of rental movies.

49. Wear your pants backwards.

50. Decline to be seated at a restaurant, and simply eat their complimentary mints by the cash register.

51. Begin all your sentences with "ooh la la!"

52. ONLY TYPE IN UPPERCASE.

53. only type in lowercase.

54. dont use any punctuation either

55. Buy a large quantity of orange traffic cones and reroute whole streets.

56. Pay for your dinner with pennies.

57. Tie jingle bells to all your clothes.

58. Repeat everything someone says, as a question.

59. Write "X - BURIED TREASURE" in random spots on all of someone's roadmaps.

60. Inform everyone you meet of your personal Kennedy assassination/UFO/ O.J Simpson conspiracy theories.

61. Repeat the following conversation a dozen times: "Do you hear that?" "What?" "Never mind, its gone now."

62. Light road flares on a birthday cake.

63. Wander around a restaurant, asking other diners for their parsley.

64. Leave tips in bolivian currency.

65. Demand that everyone address you as "Conquistador."

66. At the laundromat, use one dryer for each of your socks.

67. When Christmas caroling, sing "Jingle Bells, Batman smells" until physically restrained.

68. Wear a cape that says "Magnificent One."

69. As much as possible, skip rather than walk.

70. Stand over someone's shoulder, mumbling, as they read.

71. Pretend your computer's mouse is a CB radio, and talk to it.

72. Try playing the William Tell Overture by tapping on the bottom of your chin. When nearly done, announce "no, wait, I messed it up," and repeat.

73. Drive half a block.

74. Inform others that theyxist only in your imagination.

75. Ask people what gender they are.

76. Lick the filling out of all the Oreos, and place the cookie parts back.

77. Cultivate a Norwegian accent. If Norwegian, affect a Southern drawl.

78. Routinely handcuff yourself to furniture, informing the curious that you don't want to fall off "in case the big one comes".

79. Deliberately hum songs that will remain lodged in co-workers brains, such as "Feliz Navidad", the Archies "Sugar" or the Mr. Rogers theme song.

80. While making presentations, occasionally bob your head. like a parakeet.

81. Lie obviously about trivial things such as the time of day.

82. Leave your Christmas lights up and lit until September.

83. Change your name to "AaJohn Aaaaasmith" for the great glory of being first in the phone book. Claim it's a Hawaiian name, and demand that people pronounce each "a."

84. Sit in your front yard pointing a hair dryer at passing cars to see if they slow down.

85. Chew on pens that you've borrowed.

86. Wear a LOT of cologne.

87. Listen to 33rpm records at 45rpm speed, and claim the faster speed is necessary because of your "superior mental processing."

88. Sing along at the opera.

89. Mow your lawn with scissors.

90. At a golf tournament, chant "swing-batabatabata-suhWING-batter!"

91. Ask the waitress for an extra seat for your "imaginary friend."

92. Go to a poetry recital and ask why each poem doesn't rhyme.

93. Ask your co-workers mysterious questions, and then scribble their answers in a notebook. Mutter something

about "psychological profiles."

94. Stare at static on the TV and claim you can see a "magic picture."

95. Select the same song on the jukebox fifty times.

96. Never make eye contact.

97. Never break eye contact.

98. Construct elaborate "crop circles" in your front lawn.

99. Construct your own pretend "tricorder," and "scan" people with it, announcing the results.

100. Make appointments for the 31st of September.

101. Invite lots of people to other people's parties.

Oh and one more....send email like this!! lmao

Getting your Mojo Back

Morning everyone,

Hope we are well on this windy day....well it is windy here in Melbourne!  At least my washing will get dried! LOL

When I go and host a Wicked party, I often here from people...I do not have any drive at all....do you have ideas, hints etc.  Lots of questions like this....so I thought I would blog about it.

To a certain extent it’s normal for sexual desire to wax and wane and a low sex drive is often the result of major life changes such as illness, job stress, having a baby, kids or menopause etc.

The problems women have with their sex life, what I think anyways,  can be divided into four areas

•Lack of desire

•Lack of arousal

•Failure to orgasm

•Pain or discomfort with intercourse

 

Chinese medicine associates a healthy sex drive with overall good health and some of the most famous Chinese tonic herbs, such as Ginseng, are also considered to be herbal aphrodisiacs.  Lisa from Overall Being also has some wonderful products also.

 

All of these areas have different diagnoses in Chinese medicine and are treated with different combinations of herbs and regular acupuncture treatments.

Lack of libido in women is usually diagnosed as weak Kidney Qi and Heart blood deficiency. The kidneys are considered to be the root of reproductive energy and the emotions, as reflected by the heart, also play a vital role in female sexuality. So we treat low desire with a combination of herbs that nourish both the heart and kidneys.

Lack of arousal is also related to weak kidney energy but in this case it is attributed to weak kidney yin. Yin is what gives our bodies lubrication

Failure to orgasm is related to stagnation and in particular stagnation of liver qi. In Chinese medicine the liver channel flows through the genitals and the liver is responsible for the smooth flow of energy throughout the body. Lack of orgasm is related to an interruption in this energy flow

Painful intercourse is also related to stagnation in Chinese medicine – blood stagnation. As in Western medicine where painful intercourse is associated with a diagnosis of endometriosis or fibroids, in Chinese medicine the pain is attributed to some kind of local obstruction

I know of these, as after my children, I had issues and I consultant with a chinese herbalist, and they gave me this info.  I know there are many others things that can be the issues also.  Chinese medicine has a long tradition of using safe, gentle aphrodisiacs and may be all you need to get your sex life back on track

Some other things he asked me to try were:-

• Acupuncture - acupuncture moves qi in the channels around the genitals and so can help with issues related to orgasm. Acupuncture can also gently balance hormones and so can help increase desire and arousal

• Consult your doctor – there can be structural and hormonal issues affecting your libido and your doctor will be able to help with these. Your doctor can also tell you if any of the medicine you are taking is lowering your libido and may be able to suggest alternatives. She/He can also check for undiagnosed medical conditions such as diabetes, high blood pressure and hypothyroid – all of which can affect your sexual response.

• Exercise – regular exercise moves qi in Chinese medicine and so alleviates the qi stagnation associated with poor sexual response. Exercise also reduces stress and improves your body image, both of which will help you feel sexier

• Strengthen your pelvic muscles. . To perform these exercises, tighten your pelvic muscles as if you’re stopping a stream of urine. Hold for a count of five, relax and repeat. Do this several times a day.  We here at Wicked also sell a awesome toll to use for this!

• And my biggest problem....Set aside time for sex. Although you sacrifice spontaneity by doing this, scheduling time when you and your partner can be intimate can really help a struggling sex life. You can also liven things up by making some changes to your regular sexual routine.

And I guess.....host a party and buy some toys for you and your partner to experiment with.

Well, I hope this may help...even a little bit.

Have a wonderful day and

Erotic Food

Hidi Ho everyone,

Hope you are all having a awesome day.

Today, I thought i would talk about food.  Erotic food....to me this screams chocolate! LOL

The erotic power of food has been celebrated for centuries. Casanova was said to share oysters with his paramours to whet their sexual appetites. Greek and Roman cultures enjoyed a parade of ripe fruits and exotic dishes before engaging in sensual pleasures. It has even been said that a delicious meal is the quickest way to a man (or woman's) heart. Afterall, what courtship would be complete without a romantic dinner?

Nutrition plays a vital role in love and lovemaking. The quality of our diet has a great deal to do with the quality of our sex. Many nutritious foods can stir libido, revive sexual function and enhance overall health, especially when served up in a sensual way.

Healthy Ingredients for "Gourmet Love"

The dietary ingredients for a lifetime of wonderful sex include a variety of fresh, wholesome fruits and vegetables, and lean proteins. Complex carbohydrates should be the centerpiece of a healthy sex diet, with lean proteins comprising about 20% to 30% of daily calories, advises Chris Meletis, N.D., chief medical officer at the National College of Naturopathic Medicine. Meals rich in fruits and vegetables provide beneficial nutrients that keep organs in peak condition and energy at maximum levels, both of which are essential for lovemaking.

Although some foods arouse, others can impair sexual function. Fried fare and rich cream sauces can leave us feeling more sluggish than sexy. What's more, excessive sugar, salt, saturated fat and highly processed foods are linked to frigidity, difficulty reaching orgasm and lack of interest in sex. Cutting back on these foods will help revive and preserve sexual vitality and enhance overall well-being. It's also a good idea to limit consumption of alcohol and coffee, and to skip tobacco altogether. These "pleasure drugs" can dampen sexual desire and leech beneficial nutrients vital to our sexual health.

The good news is that some indulgences are beneficial. The rich, delicious decadence known as chocolate contains phenylalanine, an amino acid that raises the body's endorphins, our natural antidepressants. Enjoyed in moderation, a few morsels can lift libido, providing a tantalizing prelude to sex.

The following is a selection of high vitality, fresh foods that supply nutrients essential for a healthy sex life. "Looked at in the right light," writes author Diane Ackerman in "A Natural History of the Senses," "any food might be thought aphrodisiac."

Sexual Sustenance

Taking the time to investigate which fruits and vegetables appeal most in terms of their fragrance, shape, touch, texture (and of course, taste), allows us to see our sustenance with new eyes. With these characteristics in mind, gathering the ingredients for a "sensual" new way of eating can be fun.

Here are some tips:

•Feast on fruits.Bursting with fiber and antioxidants, and thought to be imbued with aphrodisiac properties, many fresh fruits are as sensual as they are nutritious. Apples, apricots, bananas, cherries, coconut, dates, figs, grapes, mangoes, papayas, peaches, pears, plums, pomegranates, quince, raspberries and strawberries are celebrated in erotic literature throughout the world. Whichever fruits you choose, enjoy them often, and with a new appreciation of their attributes.

•Devour delicious vegetables. Asparagus, carrots, celery, corn, cucumbers, carrots, eggplant and several other phallic-shaped vegetables have long been prized for their aphrodisiac effects. Although it may be hard to think of them as "erotic", these earthly delights certainly invigorate the body with vitamins and minerals. The avocado, on the other hand, is undeniably sensual—so much so that the Spanish conquistadors helped spread its reputation throughout the world as a powerful stimulant. The juicy tomato, or "love apple," a potent source of the powerhouse antioxidant, lycopene, was once a highly sought-after libido enhancer. Other veggies reputed to turn up the heat and fortify the body, include: beans, garlic, leeks, onions, parsley, peppers, soybeans, spinach, truffles, turnips and watercress. Serve these foods often for optimal sexual health.

•Savor fruits of the sea and lean proteins. Shellfish including abalone, oysters, clams, scallops, shrimp, lobster and deep, cold-water fish like cod and halibut, fuel the body, the brain and sex drive. Oysters, for instance, are rich in zinc and iodine. Zinc, a vital sexual nutriment, is essential for testosterone production in men and women.

•Eat lean meats. Meats such as chicken and turkey are healthful in moderation. "Good protein intake is important, but excessive amounts can interfere with sexuality," warns Elson Haas, M.D., and author of "Staying Healthy With Nutrition". If possible, choose organic meats to avoid hormones, antibiotics and other additives typically found in these foods. Nuts, seeds and beans are also excellent sources of protein. Both pine nuts and pumpkin seeds are sexual adjuvants.

•Get a little on the side. Although a healthy diet provides most of the nourishment necessary for sexual wellness, a multivitamin/mineral supplement offers extra health insurance. Vitamins including A, the B group, C and E are necessary for sexual functioning. Vitamin E, for instance, supplies the sex organs with sufficient oxygen. B vitamins, including niacin and B-5, can help men and women reach orgasm and improve sexual stamina. Selenium, manganese and of course, zinc, are also vital in regulating hormones and revving up sex drive. Rather than taking these individually, take a multivitamin/mineral to ensure correct dosages. Check with your doctor to learn which brands he or she recommends

 

The Erotic Element

Now that the ingredients are in place, it's time to have some fun!

Start by taking the time to savor each meal. Nutritious foods fuel our sexual energy, but it is the art of eating that can be truly erotic.

A lovingly prepared meal served in the proper ambience can precipitate passion. To help set the mood for a night of romance, try some of the following:

•Prepare a dinner for two with your beloved. (How about cooking in the nude for some added spice?)

•Spread a blanket on the floor set with candles and flowers, but no silverware.

•Dim the lights and play music that sets the right mood.

•Sip champagne, wine (one glass can be a turn on) or seltzer water.

•Serve fingerfoods such as olives or raw vegetables and dip.

•Feed your partner a juicy slice of mango, a delicate sliver of pear, or sweet grapes.

•Take turns feeding each other in creative ways.(Offer to nibble ripe raspberries from your lover's chest.)

•Finish with an arousing massage or a warm bubble bath.

For a real adventure, try a picnic in a secluded park, on the beach, or even in the bedroom. Pack light foods that can be fed to each other such as strawberries and chocolate, hard-boiled eggs, yogurt, French bread and low-fat cheese. Wear something sexy. And don't forget a blanket. Treat each course as an overture to lovemaking.

Most importantly, eat well and with pleasure.

http://healthguide.howstuffworks.com/

I hope all this helps you....does me!

Blissing out...Massage Style!

Hidi Ho everyone,

How are you on this awesome Monday?  I hope you all had wonderful weekends.  I had a fabbo party to do on Saturday with a great bunch of ladies.  Lots of fun.

Yesterday being Fathers Day, was hard for me as I lost my dad last year, but he was in my thoughts.  Hubbie was spoilt!  LOL.  Then we went to spend the day with a fellow friend to cheer her up!  Hubbie being him...certainly made her giggle!

Well today I have had awesome news....get opportunity for me...well up my alley!  Can't say too much yet, but lets say I am very excited to do this!  Watch out is all I can say!

So, today I thought I would talk about Massages.  They are a great way to get into the mood...and we sell some amazing oils also.

Lisa from Overall Being has been kind enough to put together some hints for us all.

To make your massage sensual, simply approach the strokes in a different way. You can still use the familiar massage movements, but their quality and your intention will be different. Concentrate on the feel of your touch and the responses of your partner’s body, using your hands sensitively to arouse and excite. Let your strokes linger. Use your fingertips to caress, explore and tantalize, building upon every sensation. Focus on the sensitive areas of your partner’s body. Aphrodisiac oils include sandalwood, patchouli and ylang-ylang. Add to the intensity by inventing gentle touches of your own, using not only your hands but feet, breath, hair. Aim simply to delight and captivate your partner.

Stroking with hair

Use your body in creative ways in order to heighten your partner’s senses. Brushing your partner’s body with your hair feels wonderful. Trail your hair along your partner’s back, over the soles of the feet or palms of the hands, gently flicking the ends of your hair over the skin. Always keep your attention focused on your partner’s body. Discover and invent new ways of touching.

Kneading over the neck muscles

Use your thumb and forefinger to gently knead over the neck muscles, softly releasing any tension. This feels particularly good before and after turning the head. Squeeze and lift the muscles, continuing up through the hair and toward the base of the skull. The back of the neck is an extremely sensitive area. Every single attention to detail will make your partner feel special.

Pulling the hair

Gently finger and pull at your partner’s hair, giving little tugs at the roots and stroking the strands right up to the very ends. This is a wonderful way of ending a massage over the head and neck. Everyone loves having their hair gently touched, caressed and played with.

 

Stroking the thigh

Total concentration, as well as physical closeness, is a very sensual experience. Run your fingers along the thighs, focusing on the feel and texture of the skin, as well as that of the muscles.

Stroking the elbow crease

Explore the sensitive parts of your partner’s body. Stroke along the elbow crease, gently dragging your fingertips over the skin and making soft, slow circles around the joint. Then, brush lightly and allow your touch to trail away off the body. Every part of your partner’s body can become a sensual focus.

Pushing across the shoulder blade

Gently support your partner’s body from underneath, then use the heel of your hand to ease the muscles over the shoulder blade, pushing toward the joint. Work slowly and thoroughly, trailing your strokes down the arm. This is a warming and tender stroke. Releasing tense muscles is caring in action.

Blowing over and on the back

Be inventive. The skin is the largest sensory organ of the body. There are many ways you can awaken your partner’s skin and bring each part of the body alive in turn. Blowing softly on and over the back after massaging provides a gentle pause and allows you to vary the intensity of the experience. Keep your lips as relaxed as possible.

Stroking the shoulder

Use your fingertips to gently trace over your partner’s skin. Circle, draw, brush and caress with every finger and every part of your hand. Use your touch to stimulate the skin before massaging an area, to convey tenderness, to relax or comfort, soothe away tension or arouse. Experiment with the position of your own body so that while you are releasing tension, you are remaining physically close.

Arm stretch

Use creative touches to make your massage special. Raise your partner’s arm and slowly pull the arm back behind the head. Grasp each other’s wrists as you perform the stretch, so that your partner is playing a more active part. This gives the stretch a whole different feel.

 

Mutual foot massage

A mutual massage is always a great idea. Try this one for the feet. Bring your feet together and pushing firmly against each other, use the toes, heels and balls of your feet to press over the soles of your partner’s, covering as much skin as possible. Then rest, just toes touching.

Caressing the hands

In sensual massage, you can be creative with your bodies. Delicately run your fingers over your partner’s hand, lingering over every detail. Touching softly, even when you are so familiar, opens up whole new ways of seeing your partner. It is an immensely powerful statement.

Lisa also has an awesome Sensual Range .... drop me a email if you would like to know more!

Well have a wicked day and remember...

It's Thursday...FYI for you all.

Hidi Ho everyone,

I hope you are all well.  Well I have had a busy morning already.....dropped kids off to school and kindy, came home and vancumed, picked up toys, put clothes away, and now I am sitting down having a cuppa!

When my little one goes down for a nap, I will mop!  Busy bee I am.

So, I have been asked a few times, what is the difference between our products and ones you buy in the store.  Really, not a great deal BUT we have made sure that all of our products do not have Phthalates in them.

Ok, so what is Phthalates.....

Phthalates (pronounced FAL-LATES) is a toxic chemical softener which is most commonly used in PVC to make it soft and flexible. It is also used in sex toys, especially those made with a jelly-rubber.

Phthalates "off gas", meaning they escape from the plastic in the form of gas. It can also escape its bond from the plastic by seeping out in an oily film, which can be absorbed through our skin, mouths of mucous membranes.

Phthalates are classified as "endocrine disruptors" due to the way they mimic the body's hormones after entering the blood stream. The latest research indicates that exposure to this chemical can upset the body's ability to regulate hormone production, damage reproduction - possible infertility, cause liver and kidney defects and tumours and it can also possibly cause cancer.

The effects of Phthalates intake are long term. They are potentially carcinogenic and cause reproductive abnormalities, mainly in male offspring. The reproductive abnormalities are seen in males before they hit puberty. For example a woman who exposes herself to a large amount of Phthalates on a daily basis whilst pregnant or breastfeeding may then have a baby boy with abnormal genitals.

In 2006, Greenpeace Netherlands conducted a study and found that SEVEN out of EIGHT vibrators and dildos tested contained Phthalates in concentration from 24 to 51 percent.

Most poorly made sexy toys are often made of materials like jelly or plastic, which are porous and can't be sterilised properly, therefore they are more likely to cause an allergic reaction and bacterial infections.

The use of Phthalates in sex toy manufacturers remains completely unregulated and untested due to the Government Classifications of all sex toys as novelty items or "gag products".

Sex toys are perfectly normal and natural to use with your partner of alone. They can enhance your sex life, but it's not worth putting yourself at risk.

As I have said....we have made sure all our products do not have this in them!

So, thats the main difference we have with a store.....you know that our products are safe!

Well, I think I have over flowed you with information, so I will let you all digest this.  As I have said, I will make this blog informative for you all, covering loads of topics to help us all in the bedroom.

Have a wicked day.

Welcome to Wicked Al

Well a big warm welcome to you all,

As you can see, this blog has had a major reno!  As Wicked Al is taking off, I thought it was best to attached the blog....as I have heaps of information to share with you all.

Now, some maybe be more 'adult' related than others, but I will warn you in the post.  I will try and not place 'adult' pictures on here, we have our Wicked Website for all of that.  This will be mainly about the fun we have at out parties, some helpful hints for you and your partner and even sensual help. 

I have a qualified massage therapist who can help also.  She is also a qualified in the following :-

Chakra , Crystal Therapy, Reiki Seichem Master, Numerology, Kundalini Practioner, Muscular Skeletal Therapist and Aromatherapist

She also runs our Pamper Days....her name is Lisa.  Please make her feel welcome!

I have a few others who will be willing to share their expertise with us also.  It is all to help us be more aware of our bodies and well being....which will in turn help us in the bedroom....lol.

Well, thats enough for me for the moment.  I willbe back, so please thank you for reading and I look forward to sharing loads of information with you.

Change

Hi ya all,

Just to let you all know that LA is no longer and this blog will be going thru a major change.  Stay tuned for more details.  HEHE